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Is She Cheating On Me: I am in another country and my girlfriend is in another country. I am thinking that my girlfriend is cheating on me because we haven't seen each other for long. |
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You would be the best judge of that. But if you two are so far apart, and obviously have not seen each other for so long, what's the point of this relationship? Have you made any attempt to go and visit her? Either make the effort or move on. No use getting all tense, worried and angry about whether she is faithful to you or not. |
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Different With His Mates: I have a problem. I am seeing this guy and when we are together we communicate very well. But whenever he is around his mates he acts very different to me and I am confused because I really want to go out with him but I don't think that it's going to work. Please help me. |
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Some guys - in fact a lot of guys - are like this. It's a very male thing. They want to show in front of their mates that they are in control. If you are starting to have doubts and want to salvage this relationship, you need to be able to tell him that this is a problem. Maybe he can't see it, but hey, if you have been together for 6 years, you should be able to talk to him quietly about this otherwise what's the point? Respect is very important in a relationship. Remind him that it is you he is going to spend the rest of his life with, not his friends, and it is no use "showing off" to his friends at your expense. |
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Does She Love Me?: I love this girl more than anyone. She knows how much I love her but I am confused whether she loves me or not. At times I feel she loves me and at times I feel she doesn't. We have known each other for almost 6 years. What should I do to find out if she really loves me? |
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Wow! If after spending 6 years together, you still have doubts whether she loves you, it is time to think seriously about where this is going? Either you are insecure - maybe because she is spending too much time with her friends - including guys - rather than you and you need to talk to her about this (why she does this?) or you need to look at yourself and wonder what is it you are not doing right that makes her "go away" from you from time to time. Learn to celebrate small anniversaries like a first kiss, a first date, a first this and that and buy her small gifts and flowers and make her feel special. Sometimes, you need to do more than just love someone and a girl wants to be reminded again and again that you love her ... in different ways. |
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He Is Not Mine, But I Still Love Him: Love guru, I have been in a relationship for more than a year now. We just broke up. I found out that all this time he was in a committed relationship with another girl as well. They have been going out for the past 7 years. He told me that she was his past, but just recently I found out that they were still together so I asked him. He admitted. We broke up. I don't know what's wrong with me but I still love him and want him back. Please tell me what should I do? |
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How can you love someone who was never yours in the first place? Leave him or at least ignore him and do things that can make you forget him like making new friends and not going to the same places where you two used to go together or where you know you may bump into him. If you run to him now, you'll end up being the other woman for the rest of your life. Let him sort out his life and if he can, he will come back to you. Otherwise put it down to experience and move on. |
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Are We Meant To Be Together: I'm living in a relationship for the past 3 years. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. We are best friends, and he is an awesome lover but we never talk about if we are meant to be together. I alway ask myself but just can't ask him. Don't want him to be uncomfortable with my questions. How do I put it to him? |
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Set the environment right ... take him out to a romantic resort or a really romantic place where you guys can have a really good time and then pop the question ... look, he may say he is not ready, etc, but if he really is your good friend, and a good lover, he should not get upset at you for asking the question, but get the timing right and ensure he is relaxed and not tensed up about sth at work, etc which is why it is best to take him away somewhere. Good luck. |
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